The Blame Game
From the very moment we are born, we are exposed to various negative factors the human society surrounds us with. Thus, we are born into the monetary system which brings out the worst in people making every day of our life a battle for profit. Furthermore, our parents teach us how to live even though they themselves have hardly perfected this action. In school, we are bound to be ridiculed by some children for some trivial reasons. We will face many disappointments in our lives, especially when we start working and providing for a family of our own. However, this is life, on a global scale.
Therefore, you cannot spend your days in negativity, blaming every single one of these factors for your own misfortune or the wrong choices you have made. Rather, you are to stop for a second and think. Know that the only person to blame is you. The world is imperfect and prone to mistakes. You are the same. Thus, you need the accountability necessary for admitting these mistakes, letting the past be the past, and moving on, being a better person and never repeating the mistakes again.
Enjoy the Ride
Instead of spending time feeling miserable or blaming others for the misfortunes you have allowed to happen to yourself, you may consider changing certain things about your lifestyle and learning how to make better choices in the future.
Always have a vision of your perfect life. Keep it deep inside your mind, being at hand whenever you want to revoke it. Boost yourself with all the ambition necessary for accomplishing this desire and making it reality, sooner or later.
Yet, in order to make your desires real, you need realistic goals. So, do not be afraid to set them and stay aware of them at all times. Write down your desires as if they were already accomplished, allowing yourself to experience the positive feelings of success you are supposed to make your own oneday.
Be prepared to make chains of events leading to your success in life. For example, if you are having problems with your car, being old and broken, you need a good, new one. However, before this can happen, you need a better job. Also, before this can happen you need further education, perfecting your knowledge in certain fields. Envision this chain and follow it until you reach success.
Avoid negativity in your planning. Namely, instead of focusing on your wants and needs, feeling miserable since you lack all the things you want, think about them as if you already have them. Give yourself reasonable deadlines for accomplishing your goals and stay motivated. Know exactly what you want and how to get it. Have the whole image of the final product of your efforts engraved in your mind.
Finally, go one step at a time and never give up. You will achieve all you desires sooner than you have ever expected.