Facts about Abusers
An abuser is a person prone to abusingothers. In order to live for such a strange purpose, you need to fitinto a certain psychological profile. Since we are greatly influencedby our long time passed experiences, usually in childhood, abusivebehavior has such roots as well. Namely, since it is connected tomany factors such as a will for dominance and overall control oversomeone's life, while at the same time preserving a good image aboutoneself, covertly inflicting pain to the victims, this disorder isquite complex.
There are different things which canteach one to behave in such violent, sadistic and distorted manner.Most commonly, these people were either abused themselves orextremely spoiled during childhood. Learning to control yoursubmissive parents can influence your behavior later in life, itevolving into the abusive character you might have. Also, peoplewhose relationship with parents came down to conditional loveprovided that all the requirements like good grades, positivebehavior and others were fulfilled are also prone to abusive behaviour. Finally, abusive behavior canstem from having a really rough childhood, being abused eithersexually or physically, as well as mentally.
Due to the complicated mentalcharacteristic of this disorder, treatment can sometimes be hard,since many barriers need to be broken in order to reach the personhiding behind abusive behavior, being helpless, alone andtraumatized, expressing this through hurting others.
Treatment for Abusers
As mentioned above, one possible way oftreating a person with this problem is through therapy andprofessional treatment. However, since abusers often desire to fit inthe society perfectly and without any imperfections, they usuallyabuse members of their family, especially spouses covertly.
Luckily, in the modern society withstrong, protective measures against domestic violence, the number ofthese incidents has decreased drastically. Nevertheless, there arestill people who put up with the domestic abuse, thinking, forexample, that a male may beat a female etc. This, of course, is awrong attitude and should be remedied as soon as possible. Ourimperfect society gives birth to people with disorders too.
All in all, treating an abuser is hardand requires many people to react against his/her behavior. First,others must make this person realize that what he/she is doing iswrong and punishable by law. Before engaging the legislativeapparatus, people should try to mend this in a positive, caring way.However, if this method crashes against sadistic behavior of anabuser, adequate measures need to be taken as soon as possible.